eHarmony
OK, everyone in America has seen all of the eHarmony ads on TV. eHarmony claims to have superior results due to scientific relationship methods and advanced Personality Profiles. Not True! The reason that eHarmony is growing (and is so expensive) is all of the advertising they do! If their site was so successful, would they need to spend millions on TV ads?
What science has determined is the following:
- Attraction is determined within SECONDS of meeting the opposite sex
- Women prefer taller men
- Men prefer women with a hourglass figure (hip to waist ratio)
- Men trained as pickup artist did worse in meeting women then “normal” men
- Personality profiles and matches were not an indicator of who would like who.
You can watch the scientists at work on the BBC show, Secrets of the Sexes Science of Love.
So, what can we learn from this and how does it apply to Online Dating in general and Adventure Romance Tour in particular?
- Meet the Right Women
- Meet a lot of the Right Women
- Learn the local culture and act accordingly
- Learn the local culture and Dress and Look accordingly
- Meet the Right Women
The biggest mistake men make is going after the wrong women in the first place.
You have already made one good choice by planning on meeting Colombian Women.
The second right move you can make is to focus on Colombian Women in your “Age Bracket”. Yes, you will find very young Colombian Women who show interest in older foreign men. Unfortunately in most of these cases the girls intentions are not honorable. They are looking to take advantage of the man financially. If you are older then 40, it is best to focus on Colombian women in their 30s and above. Not only are the younger girls’ intentions suspect, but the differences in age, maturity and experience make a long term relationship less likely. An age difference of less then 15 years has been shown to improve the odds of a successful relationship.
- Meet a lot of the Right Women
Science has determined that attraction is determined within seconds of meeting.
So don’t make the mistake of flying to a foreign country to meet one girl. It is very common for a couple to get alone great via email, phone calls and webcam, but until you meet face to face, you will not know if you have the chemistry required to make a relationship.
We have seen men schedule 3 weeks in Colombia to spend time with one woman in one Colombian City. Big Mistake! You could get off the plane and know within seconds know that there is not a connection. Better to meet the women you have been corresponding with on an Adventure Romance Tour. If you connect with one special woman, great, you can spend time with her. But if you don’t connect, you can meet other Colombian women that you might like better.
- Learn the local culture and Act accordingly
North American men going to Colombia for the first time make the same mistakes over and over again, which is to act like American or Canadian men! What we mean by this is the following.
All Colombian women will tell you that they want a nice, sensitive man. And while that is partially true, what they really want is a strong man who is faithful. So when meeting Colombian women, keep that in mind. The best way to act is to be confident in yourself, and what you can provide them (a faithful, helpful husband) Be Yourself and don’t try to impress or entertain them. If you try too hard or come across as too desperate or too “nice”, you may attract women more interested in your money then in you or they will want you as a friend only.
- Learn the local culture and Dress and Look accordingly
Don’t be an ugly American! The Colombian men and women are all good dressers. They don’t wear baggy clothing, they tuck in their shirts and they wear their hair short.
Look around and see what the locals are wearing and how they look and try to fit in. If you did not pack correctly or have time for a haircut prior to your Adventure Romance Tour, go to the Mall or Barbara shop! The Colombian Malls are fantastic and I am sure you can find a Colombian woman to help you shop. Recommendation: Do your shopping first! If she asks you to buy her something, finish the shopping trip and send her home! You can buy her a top or something small as a way of saying thanks, after she has helped you pick out some clothes, . Once again, if she tries to turn the purpose of the trip into purchasing stuff for her, send her home!
So why wait, Meet Colombian Women Today!
